In your book, you said that if a guy isn’t seeing you more than once a week by the 3 months point, he probably isn’t interested in a serious relationship. I made that need known last weekend in a calm, rational way. I want to see more of him at this point (3 months,) especially on Saturday nights.
We live about an hour and 1/2 apart and he has a very high level job and a big house to take care of (and a dog.) There has been no sex yet but lots of “foreplay.” He says he always waits to have sex until he’s more sure of the woman. and 1 in Oct.) when we saw each other on Saturday and Sunday (but no sleepover) we have only seen each other once a week. With the exception of 2 weekends (1 in late Sept. He’s a recent widower (wife died of cancer in June 2010.) We started dating just after Labor Day.
I have not “lost” the guy I’ve been dating for the past 3 months, but I need to fix some of the mistakes I was starting to make.
I just read your book “Why He Disappeared” and really appreciated the great info.